A Terroristic Divorce

The Custody Master who drafted the agreement seemed to think it appropriate – and she was supposed to be acting in Brennan’s best interests. 

Sara Goren, Malpractice, Incompetence, or Stupid?

• How could Sara Goren, the Custody Master, permit such an agreement when it was clearly not in the child’s best interests?  Experience and human nature would clearly indicate that she failed in her responsibility to look after the child’s best interests.  There is no way she didn’t know it would lead to the end of their relationship.  She also knew it would take a long time to get it before a judge if the agreement was signed.  By the time it goes before a judge, the relationship will be so over that when the child tells the judge that his father was upset on the phone one time, the father will be denied any access to him at all.  Or maybe he’ll win that one last week before the child turns 18 and can make the call himself.  Too Late – the relationship is destroyed. I don’t imagine anyone would question why I would like to see this agreement changed.  But not just for ME, for Brennan. It is a bad agreement.  And it should never be his fault.  And this document is not about about including his father and mother.  It is about excluding his father.  And it’s not his mother’s fault at all. BULLSHIT!

Taking the advise of counselors, I did give Brennan ‘space’ in the summer/fall of 2007. That ‘space’ was interpreted as me ignoring my son by the Custody Master, Sara Goren. When I pointed out that had I arrived at the barn in Quakertown where Brennan was staying the police would have been called, not for cause, but simply to create the appearance of something wrong.  Miss Goren chastised that claim dismissing it because ‘You are his father, why would they call the police on his father’.  Brennan himself confirmed that oh yes, the police would have been called immediately – but never offered why. It was of no relevance that while I was allowing him the space, I was also filing the paperwork to initiate the custody process because he suddenly was having no contact with me at all – and without explanation.  My wife was not agreeing to any access to my son in any mediation or meeting without explanation of reason or cause.

• Miss Goren went into a detailed rebuke of my absence from Brennan’s soccer games.  She went further into instruction of how I could use the North Penn High School web site to find out when and where he was playing soccer and go and attend his soccer games.  She was not aware that the District Attorney’s Office had just given a presentation at Montgomery County Community College on internet safety which clearly indicated this was a method by which child molesters were finding their targets.  It was also of little necessity to indicate that my son did not play for the high school.  It was apparently not even a relevant point.  Needless to say, my wife and her attorney didn’t correct Miss Goren’s flawed assumption.  

Perhaps October 27, 2007 was Sara Goren’s first day on the job dealing with families in crisis.  She appears to have an incredibly naive view of divorce, human nature and the family dynamic when going through a divorce.  She is definitely not qualified to look after the best interests of the child.  She seems to look after the simple wants and needs of the mother.

LIES LIES LIES LIES LIES LIES LIES LIES LIES LIES

Supposedly on March 25, 2008, Sara Goren had a family emergency and had to cancel her appointment.  After waiting since December 26, 2007 for the  conference, I requested it be scheduled with the soonest possible time – even if it meant going to another Custody Master.  

• My request wasn’t granted.  It seems Angst & Angst contacted the court admin and requested it be held until Sara had another available time.  It was schedule for May 19 – 2 months later… and approaching a year since I had seen my son.
• It turns out that Sara kept her other appointments that day – only my conference was dropped from her schedule.
• On May 19, 2008, Sara Goren made the preposterous suggestion that I take a few weeks to think about if I wanted to go to court with this.  WHAT?  After waiting close to a year to have any time with my son.  Wait 3 weeks?  Is she out of her mind?  Or is she trying to make sure that the hearing doesnt happen before they try to abduct Brennan out of the country.  She waited anyway to submit her report.  
• Her report was fraud.  Not one item I mentioned that day made her report.  NOT ONE.  

In October 2008, when I asked her about her grossly inaccurate and incomplete report, she was confused.  She also had absolutely no recollection of the family emergency.    Because there obviously wasn’t one.  Her fake family emergency obviously came before my real family emergency. 

As I write this, it is a year later and the court still has not had the hearing I requested.  And the judge apparently has no intention of ever hearing the facts on the petition.    Best Interests of the Child??? Not in this judge’s courtroom.

• I can not state it any more clearly, than this.  I believe Sara Goren is corrupt.  She is a fraud.  She has damaged my son directly with her corrupt actions.  Her actions have hurt my entire family.  

• DO NO TRUST HER WITH YOUR FAMILY.  
• I REGRET THINKING SHE COULD BE TRUSTED TO BE A PROFESSIONAL.  
• SHE PLACED ALL RESPONSIBILITY ON THE CHILD.  
• DECISIONS PLACED ON A CHILD WHO HAS NOT BEEN PERMITTED TO SPEAK TO HIS FATHER.
• THE WOMAN IS A MONSTER.